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Thursday, November 1, 2007

If you wanna be my friend!

Last night, I came to the realization that one of my really close friends wasn't quite as close to me as I would have hoped and thought!
It got me thinking about the qualifications of a good friends. This is sort of a Do's and Don't's list, which I believe is known by mostly everyone!

* Always have your friend's back- never let someone hurt of damage them without a fight!
* Always tell them if something about them is bothering you!- by avoiding confrontation, you are only creating more tension.
* Never date an Ex of a friend shortly after the break-up
* Always treat your friend's significant others and friends with respect, even if you dislike them.
* Allow yourself to cool down before approaching your friend about an issue- you don't want to be in a state when you will blow up, yet you also don't want to wait too long.
* Always do what's best for your friend!

1 comment:

Cozdaddy said...

I really like this list! Sticking up for your friends is really important, cause if you don't there will be tension between you and your friends.

I remember last year before we got out of school my main group of friends and I got into a huge argument (which unfortunately was escalated by me) and it really just left a bad taste in our mouths when we left. I learned a lot about myself and what my friends expect of me.